There are so many things that throw you off when you try to come up with the courage to approach women, 99% of which is inside your head. In fact, some men simply accept that they will never learn how to approach girls because they can’t get over the stuff that goes on inside their head when approach anxiety kicks in.
Most guys don’t realize how much pressure they build up when they start wishing they can read a woman’s mind so they know what to dish out. They ask, “will she like me”, “will she think I’m cool” and the worst question of all, “will she give me her number if I buy her a drink” This approval seeking behavior will erode your potential in learning how to approach girls the right way.
So, what do you need to understand to really learn how to approach girls Two things…
1. Cut Yourself Some Slack
The thing is, thinking about rejection will not help you understand how to approach girls. The thought that “you see rejection coming even before you actually approach her” will kill your mojo if you let it. Worst of all, this self defeating mindset will make you jumpy and tense, which isn’t a good thing if you want to show that you’re relaxed and easy going around other people.
What’s the solution Avoid thinking about rejection. How Approach a woman for another reason besides wanting to get laid and getting her number. Enjoy her company, and focus on getting to know her. You’re at a party and you’re there to have fun, mingle and just enjoy.
Put that thought in front and think of getting a girl’s phone number and making her want to date you as the icing on the cake. The most important thing is that you get a girl laughing with you, and making her realize how fun it is to be around you.
2. Have a great opener ready
When we talk about approaching, we’re not just talking about ONE girl. What if the girl you have your eye on is a part of a group of girls Seriously, did you really expect a girl to come alone
You bet she will have a lot of other women around her, and this means you’re going to have to approach a GROUP of women who could react differently towards you. This means you can’t use most of the rehashed and regurgitated pick up lines that these women have all heard before. This also means your opener must be able to fascinate a group of women, not just one.
Lastly, make sure your opener has the crucial element called “fun”. You see, “fun” is the key to building rapport, and it’s the first thing you should consider when thinking of ways how to approach girls.
If you’re looking for a great opener that will captivate and fascinate even the largest group of gorgeous women, I’ve got a great one for you. It’s called the Hiroshima Opener.