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Check out this new video from Race DePriest about how to Text Message girls in a way that pretty much guarantees you’ll get a response. Race is a good friend of mine and I really wanted to share this with you because it might help some guys.
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- How to use a text game system to go from number to hookup in 1 date
- How to set yourself apart from every other guy who’s texting her
- The “dirtiest dream” technique for under-the-radar sexual escalation
- How to use text messaging to manage multiple relationships with ease
- Why long conversations at the bar can be a thing of the past
- The “odd time” technique to get her confirmed to hang out
- And so much more…
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i have a really frustrating situation! i met a girl in the bus and everytime i aks he if she wants to meet up with me she doesnt really response and say something like; “yes well meet up soon but i am very busy right now”. hope you can help me
i got this really awesome girl shes like my perfect type we text sometimes but it always takes her like 2 hours to respond and then she will just stop and next time i see here shes all like oh sorry i fell asleep or some crap anyway i really like this girl but im afraid im gonna blow it if i text her to much i need help
First date, amazing chemistry, been almost two weeks, always busy, only every other text msg I initiate results in back and forth messaging. Here's my story:
Apr 11
It was just going to be a quick “sanity check” meetup for lunch that turned into an all day sightseeing and all night partying affair.
She came hard but unfortunately, the whiskey kicked in shortly thereafter and I went limp.
Usually the whiskey's not a problem but everytime I have a good chemistry with a girl, it affects me as such.
I thought about my performance, or lack thereof, but figured since she came, and it was chilly in that alley (long story) that she'd understand and give me a second chance.
Apr 13
I waited a day and then texted her, no response.
Apr 14
Tried again the next day, said she was going out of town for a few days and had to work on Saturday.
Apr 19
So Monday I asked about meeting up for lunch, no response.
Apr 20
She responds by saying she has to work but offers to do something in the evening. My evenings are booked this week so we agree to meet late this Sunday. This Sunday will be two weeks removed from my torrid performance
Is texting even applicable here? btw I'm a real skeptic on these things b/c what works for some may not work for others.
Sincerly,
Mr. Softy
There is this girl i like but every time i even bring up relationships she just stops texting me. What do i do?
Weren't we supposed to get Race's number?
OMG!!!! As I read this it was sprinkling a lil bit, so I tried “The Dirty Dream” out on this hottie I've been messaging for a few days. And this s#!t WORKS!!!!! She is so turned on rite this minute! I kinda changed it to fit the showers we have going on tonite. DAMN!!! GOOD STUFF!!!!
MisterSofty….Texting has to be handled with care. It can be “magic” and it can be gut wrenching when the texts don't go the way you want.
I always advise to use the phone when you can instead of relying on the text message by itself. But using some of Race's advice above if you really get good at texting…anything can happen and you can accelerate your success.
Ok here goes met this really hot italian girl like you guys said we texted 99% of the time . Well long story short i set up a date for friday night she seems excited telling me no way hell or high water she is not gonna break this date! I didnt even ask so I dont know why she said it but it sent up a red flag….so friday evening arives we are texting a little back and forth im being cool just your usual BS.Well gues what in the middle of texting back and forth she says she cant go because her cousin just broke up with his girlfriend he's 25 and she is pickin him up to console him .I thought she was joking ! so the next day she's burnin my phone up like nothing happened….i didnt talk to her at all I was pissed. So I go out with some friend and gues what I run into her I couldnt help it I let her have it about breakin a date ! We still talk a little after that but she says I really hurt her feelings Blah Blah ….. so what can I do to turn this around ?I aplolgized for being harsh with her !! I sure didnt want to ill tell you that!!So I know this is a challenge just wondering what you guys would do in this situation or would you just move on? Thanks
Hey Max.
Hard question. Number 1…learn from that mistake. When you show anger with a girl for flaking you might think you're calling her out, but you're really just tipping your hand that she got to you and that you cared more than you should let on.
You showed her though that with one little decision she made (honest or not) that you'll berate her and cause a scene. She's thinking you'll do that everytime you have an argument.
Turning it around depends on if she likes you or not. And i would tell her that you're sorry you blew up but make something up that was bugging you already and you took it out on her. Then invite her to go do something that you were going to do anyway…not an official date and if she flakes again it doesn't ruin your plans.
So I think this falls under the “texting” category. I met this girl at school a while back and I could tell by the short exchange we had that she was interested in me. Either way, knowing I would see her again, I didn`t push for a number and sure as hell, I see her a couple of days later at a house party. At the party, I made sure not to “overpay” her any attention (equally spending time with the other girls), and it is fair to say we had a great time. However, instead of getting her number, I just add her and the others I met to Facebook the next day without any extra message.
Finals came along soon after, so I spent most of my time studying, but now, two weeks later, I want to re-initiate our contact and finally get her to give me her number (as opposed to getting it through her facebook). The problem lies in the fact that its been about two weeks and I'm pretty sure that this pretty blonde does not still have that same initial attraction (I know mine faded). I however still want to meet her and give it a try. So what kind of message do you think would be a good re-kindle message? Thanks
It has happened to us all. It seems you are investing much more than she is, so she is not as attracted to you as you want her to be. Don’t worry all is not lost. There are several ways to recapture a woman’s attention.
Typically you need to go back and build some more attraction. You do this by sending a text that is fun, playful and non-needy that involves her directly in some way either by doing something to her or requesting something outrageous from her.
Examples:
“what the hell are you up to this weekend?…let me guess, finishing up your ninja training. Oh wait that’s me..hi-ya! Sorry didn’t mean to judo chop you over txt…haha
“so it’s pretty hot out at the pool (or anywhere) right now could you come fan me with a big leaf and feed me grapes? Thanks
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“hey crazy face..are you still alive? should I send a search party of midget ninja’s (or minja’s as they prefer to be called) to come rescue you?!
Now keep in mind do not answer back immediately and if she texts u a question or any vulnerable text…wait at least 10 minutes to respond so she can wonder if she sent the wrong text and this will build tension haha u know how that feels since she does it to you. Also after 3 or 4 texts end the conversation and say your busy and will text later
let me know how it works
Cheers!
Don't always text about meeting up. The more you do it the more you are pushing he away. Instead build some attraction first and tease her playfully. Remember you are not giving her a reason to hang ouyt with you so she will always turn you down politely.
Try any of these texts to create that dynamic:
“You’re a closet dork aren’t you?..except without the closet
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“Come on now… you have work today huh…? Sure it isn’t mandatory community service!? A cute, yet sassy gal who’s a felon… who woulda knew!? Hahah
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“Awww you’re kinda cute…for a girl
”
If she ever has problems with her car, phone, or any thing she pays monthly for you can say:
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“Its cool if you couldn’t afford to pay your bill-I’m not judging you… that much… hahaha j/k
If she ever suggests a time to meet up (eg 6pm):
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“no that’s too early…dont wanna be stuck with ya that long! Let’s do 6:03 haha
If she ever gives you a compliment:
“That is the nicest thing anyone has ever told me … Since I woke up:-)”
Then just leave her hanging and say u will text her later. Of course next time you text her invite her out to something you are already gonna do. have a plan and act like u are going to this place regardless whether she comes or not.
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“(this is the invite), but only if you bring loads of fun energy
this works for her to qualify herself to you! works like magic try it out and let me know how it goes
Cheers
In future interactions, try not to wait this long before re-initiating contact with a girl. Try to remember something that happened during the interaction and bring it up when message her talk to her to use as anchor to create that feeling she had back when she was with you. You can then mention how there were a crazy series of events that forbid me from talking to you and she will then want to know what those are. Don't tell her what they were in the initial message. Now to test the waters send her something to engage her into responding
Try:
Oh BTW! I just realized which celebrity you remind me of..crazy crazy
she should respnd to this and then in ur respons u can tease her and then say she seems fun and would be fun to text with so leave ur # at the end of the message. This way she will text you first and create the dynamic that she is now chasing you! Crazy but this works and now u have the power in the interaction from the start.
Let me know how this goes or any clarifiacation
Cheers
well the obvious answer is not to bring up relationships and Im not really sure what you mean by that. are u asking her “where do we stand?” Those type of questions should not have to be asked by us. Try taking a step back and text her playfully and use nicknames to create a fun interaction. Hey princess sparkles, baby munchkin, sugar buns. These are fun to use and she will not be expecting them! Then invite her to hang out to something u are already doing. Have a plan and then just have fun with her without worrying about the outcome. Use Race De Priests Txt guide to get her really comfortable and excited to see you again with text messaging.
Cheers
Totally agree Brad. I see texting as an added spice to your interactions, rather than something you use on its own.
a1
Hey, theres this girl i really like and that i have met up with, who is sooo kl. we have been talking on the internet for a few years now, and we finally went out. and evrything was fine, she was relaxed so was i we were laughing we kissed and everything was gd, then she text me the next day saying thnx, and she looks forward 2 seeing em next and asked when we can meet up next, and i said sunday and she said ye, and i said ok, im off 2 bed now, speak 2 u soon though nyt nyt xx. but i dont know whether to text her now or not because its been 3 days since i spoke 2 her, and i dont want to text her and for her to think im desperate or clingy.Id rather her chasing me if you get me, but i dont know what to do, please help me?