I love to break things down into easy to understand bits. Women are not the easiest thing to break down and neither is Attraction. There are a lot of methods and styles and techniques and I think they all work well for different people, but I wanted to find one unified theory of attraction.
(I’m not a math or physics guy, but I love Discovery channel and when I heard about a unified theory of everything…I loved the concept….so here’s mine).
The unified theory of attraction…broken down into it’s simplest elements (or at least as simple as I could get it.
A=mC3
So what the HELL does that mean? Great Questions…here goes
Every guy KNOWS that women find Confident men attractive. But there are a lot of confident guys who have no clue how to get a woman interested in him. The other trait that women can’t resist is Competence! Every woman wants a man who is Competent at his job, with his life and with his sex life.
The crazy thing is…if you’re NOT Confident…then all you have to do is build your Competence in something until you know that you’ve got the skills.
So Competence Builds Confidence…
For example, when I started to learn PUA magic tricks I was so nervous about trying them out because I was afraid I’d mess up. After a little practice I got good, then when I performed the trick for girls, I KNEW I was good…I was already Confident in my abilities. (See how one thing builds on the next)
But…
There are a lot of guys who are Competent and Confident (often cocky) and that STILL doesn’t guarantee them success with women. I have several friends who are great at their job, good looking and arrogant but can’t get a girlfriend or even laid to save their life.
What’s Missing?
The final “C” = Curiosity
In order to create attraction you have to create a sense of Curiosity in a woman about you.
Once she decides that she’ll give you a chance to talk to her, you need to keep her interested.
You want her to be curious about:
- How much you have in common
- How you would be on a date
- How good a kisser you are
- How good you are in bed
- How good a boyfriend, husband and eventually a father you would be.
WHOA! Slow down there…I know…I’m getting ahead of myself, but this is the way woman naturally tend to think and how their minds process whether or not they let you in their pants or in their hearts.
So we have 3 C’s: Competence, Confidence and Curiosity
What’s “m” stand for?
“m” = Momentum
If you can interest her with some small talk, some things in common, your charming personality that’s fine, but it’s important to escalate and increase the momentum if you want to get anywhere with a girl. Otherwise she just gets bored.
Once you have her interested, you need to…
SPIKE HER CURIOSITY and you will watch her change from an uninterested stranger to a completely enraptured fan that will do anything to satisfy her…curiosity.
So Attraction = Competence, Confidence and generation of Curiosity multiplied with Momentum
Definitely not rocket science, just my little way of breaking it down into simple core elements.
As many of you know by now, one of the techniques I use to create Curiosity with women is Magic Tricks of Pick Up Artists.
There are other ways as well…just ask yourself. How can you be a “Renaissance Man” that women find interesting?
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